The days of generic engagement sessions? Yeah, we’re leaving those behind. Meeting a photographer you’ve never met at a random park, striking the same three poses? Done. And thank the stars for that! Every couple has their own reasons for a session: practicing for the big day, capturing content for Save the Dates, or just getting cute photos for the ‘gram. Maybe you’re newly engaged, been in it for months, or you’re not even technically engaged yet. Whatever your reason, showing up authentically is key.
So, what does being authentic even mean?
- It’s dropping the pretense. No forced smiles.
- Not pretending you’re someone you’re not. (Spoiler alert: you’re already awesome as you are.)
- Reflecting your personality and story in your photos.
- Seeing those photos ten years from now and still feeling like, “Yeah, that’s us.”
Whether it’s a session at your fave pizza spot, a wander through Costco (yes, I’ve done it!), or snuggles on the couch with your pets—what feels real and meaningful to you is always the right answer. It’s about telling your story, not some version of it. And the more comfortable you are, the better those photos are gonna be. Trust me!
Choosing a Location
Planning doesn’t have to feel like a chore. It’s about building something together. Starting at the discovery call, I’ll ask you all about your life: How did you meet? What does your ideal weekend look like? Do you have a special spot that’s “yours”? That’s where the magic happens—making it a slice of life and not just a photo shoot.
- Start with a spot you love.
Your home, making breakfast together? Grabbing drinks at your favorite restaurant or bar? Walking the dog at your go-to park? If it’s meaningful to you, it’s perfect for your session, and that love will shine through in the photos. - Make it fun with an activity.
Whether it’s making drinks or food together, playing a board game, or cuddling a pet, it lets you focus on each other instead of the camera. Plus, it’s a great way to capture your natural, everyday dynamic.
What to Wear
When it comes to outfits, forget the pressure to look “perfect. You want to feel you instead of like you’re playing dress-up for a magazine shoot. The right outfit is one that makes you feel comfortable, confident, and lets your personality shine through. Here are a few tips to keep it simple:
- Wear something that fits well and feels great on you (The Golidlocks outfit: not too tight, not too loose, but juuust right.)
- Choose colors that complement each other. No need to match perfectly—this isn’t 1998 family portrait day!
- Stick to your style. Whether it’s casual or glam, if it feels like you, that’s what’s gonna look best in photos.
And feel free to bring a second outfit if you want! Check out more advice on what to wear here.
Should You Bring Props?
Ah, the age-old question. Should you bring props to your engagement session? My answer: Only if it adds to your story. Props aren’t necessary but can be fun if they’re meaningful and you’re excited about them. Think about:
- Including your pet, easy cuddles on the couch or playing in the yard.
- Something that calls back to important milestones in your relationship, like the proposal or your first date or your favorite piece of every day.
- Champagne or sparkling juice to pop and cheers with.
If it’s personal and helps tell your story, go for it. If it’s just to fill space or feels forced, leave it out. Simple as that.
Looking for some inspiration? Check out these recent sessions!
Atlanta Engagement in the City
Oakland Cemetery Engagement Session
Atlanta Lifestyle Engagement Session
Cator Woolford Gardens Engagement Session
Brook Run Park Engagement Session
Looking for tips on showing up authentically to your engagement session? Check out my free guide!
Ready to plan your north Georgia engagement session?
As a local wedding photographer, I’ve helped plan engagement sessions all over north Georgia and beyond! I’d love to help plan yours. Reach out and let me know what you’re thinking!
